I love this entry:

I'm breaking my promise here by reproducing without permission (BUT I quote) a friend's blog entry (my friend is an award-winning blogger). I find it thoughtful, relevant, and incisive. Let YT denote my friend. Here's an excerpt from the entry:

There are so many things that we think about throughout the relationship, so much that sometimes they distract you from concentrating on your relationship and the person you love most.

Very often it is the journey and not the destination that matters.